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Classroom Management
By Lou Anne Dibble
The idea of writing an article on classroom management seems
overwhelming to me. Books can be--and have been--written on it.
Where in the world does one begin, and what right to I have to
start?
Since I started teaching in 1965, I've certainly had some experience
with children. My first class was the worst. I was too nice, and
the class got completely out of control. It took me two months
to discover methods of getting back the control of that class.
Fortunately, time has erased much of the pain of that time, the
"childbirth" of learning to teach. The product of that
painful time, however, continues to grow, and has resulted in
me always having "the best class in the whole school."
I am happy to share what I have learned with you so you might
try what fits with you to see if it works in your situations.
I would love to get any feedback as well as any questions you
might have.
One of the things I learned was that a reputation can save a lot
of effort in establishing standards. When my first class was finally
running smoothly, a fourth-grade teacher had a nervous breakdown,
and a substitute would not stay for more than two days while she
was gone. After we watched those children run down the steps and
shout during a fire drill, one of my students said to me, "You
wouldn't allow that, would you, Mrs. Dibble?"
"Oh, no," I replied. At the same time, I was figuring
that I would probably get that class the next year since I was
the new teacher. How in the world would I handle them? Sure enough,
I got them. The first day, I had them write a letter telling me
what they expected in the fifth grade. I was utterly surprised
that they told me such things that they would be good and they
looked forward to learning a lot! I had not one day of trouble
from those kids.
I tell you this to assure you that although you may have to struggle
to put a management scenerio in place if you've been having problems,
once it is running smoothly, you will not have to work so hard
the next year.
That led to another lesson, one I had really been introduced to
while interning. Several of us were observing at a particular
elementary school. At this school, some of the teachers were exchanging
students-- one taught math while the other taught reading. I sat
with one group and watched them talking, passing notes, and drawing
instead of listening and participating in the lesson. Then I followed
those same students to the other classroom. It was as if a magic
wand had been waved at them. They were completely different. They
sat up, they listened, they participated. Was it the subject?
I don't think so. The two teachers had entirely different tolerance
levels and expectations. It was not the students; it was the teacher.
Children, like water, will seek the lowest level. On the other
hand, they will rise to expectations. It is a child's "job"
while growing up to test the boundaries. When they can't find
them, they will search further. Just as parents do, we, as teachers,
teach children how to behave in class. It's not what we say, it's
how we behave. I was in a store a few weeks ago and witnessed
a dad shopping with his child. The child found some things he
wanted and the dad accepted them, until he told the child to put
one down. The child complained, but went to another shelf while
his dad paid for his selections. After completing his purchases,
he called for the child, who brought him another toy he wanted.
The man said no, he had already paid for his products and he'd
already gotten the boy some toys. The boy had a tantrum. "I
want it! I want it!" The father looked at me, next in line,
and asked if he could just buy one more item. I, brazenly (we
teachers sometimes continue to be teachers outside of the classroom)
asked him, "Are you really going to buy him another toy after
that behavior?"
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The father answered, "Well, he wants it."
He had just taught his child how to get what he wants: yell and
scream and plead. We teachers often teach children how to behave
in class: we tell them to be quiet or to walk in a line or whatever,
and when they don't, we allow them to continue or we just yell
at them, but do nothing when they continue the same behavior.
We have taught them that it's okay to talk or to play in line.
During my first few weeks of teaching, I had taught my class that
they didn't have to mind me, that I would not follow through with
consequences, and that they could talk me into or out of things.
A third lesson I learned was that children, like dogs, will learn
to behave and do their best work because it makes them feel good
(the "intrinsic reward'), but many will seldom get to that
stage if they don't know what that feels like.
I felt that childen should not get rewarded for getting good grades
or having good behavior. After all, isnt' that what they're supposed
to do? I was horrified when a child told me he was going to get
to go on a helicopter ride if he got good grades. This was a child
who did not do his work and who was falling behind. His parents
took him on a long trip and I gave them work to do while he was
gone. When he got back, he was actually ahead of the class. When
I asked questions, he could answer them. I saw his eyes light
up when he knew things with which the other children were struggling.
From that time on, he did all of his work. He liked that feeling.
However, he may not have ever experienced it if he had not been
bribed (read "rewarded") to get his work done.
We do not expect a dog to raise his paw when we say, "shake"
without training him first with a piece of treat each time as
we first lift up his paw, then later as he lifts his own, and
finally as he raises it and puts it in our waiting hand. Still
later he will happily "shake" as we scratch his head
without the treat and even later he will do it just because that's
what's done when someone says "shake."
Why should a child be any different? We need to SHOW them what
we want (lifting the paw first) and reward them (some respond
to a lesser reward, some have already learned the habit of doing
what is expected) until their actions become habits and they are
pleased with their own results whether we reward them or not.
Some people do things because they are going toward a goal. They
respond to rewards. Others do it because they are avoiding unpleasant
consequences. Children are the same. It has been my experience
that a good management plan will incorporate both.
Lou Anne
Dibble: Graduate of Cal Berkeley; former
substitute teacher; "at risk" counselor and "human
development" teacher; Currently teaches classes for those
with Phobias, panic attacks and OCD
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